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Monday, June 29, 2009

Kids and divorce

My two smaller children were after me yesterday to come see them. I had stopped by on Saturday only to find my daughter, 12, out of town with a friend, and my youngest son, 10, at a friend's house. There was no point in staying around the house waiting for my wife to get home, so I headed back to my apartment. I live about 35 miles from them now.
My older two boys, 16 and 15, were not around either as the oldest works quite a bit as a head lifeguard. The other was out doing something with a friend's family. These two have developed into awesome guys, and I am lucky enough to have a special interest with each of them. The oldest and I share a passion for the NFL and the US Men's Soccer team. The other one and I are both wrestling fans. I took him to an episode of Monday Night Raw. It was awesome!! I will try to take my oldest to see the Houston Texans play the Ind. Colts. I love Payton Manning, so he naturally started rooting for Eli Manning. I also introduced him to Fantasy Football.
These 2 would live with me if they could choose. I don't know if that will come up when we go to court on July 14th or not. (See my previous entry about 'Divorce') I would happily take my 4 kids and be a single dad, but I can't afford to fight that battle. My wife is a good enough mom, I don't worry too much about her effects on the kids. I am in contact with the older 3 through texts almost everyday. There is the possibility that my wife will move them to San Antonio because her parents live there. That would mean moving the kids as they enter 12th, 11th, 8th and 6th grades. I think that would be the absolute worst time to move the older two. I may be able to interceed there.
I will take the kids to the pool today, prolly get some Sonic. I am bringing the second Natural Tresure movie to watch with them. (I love Nick Cage...one of my favorite actors!) I hope your day is wonderful!

I love you!

Dave

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